Recognize and eliminate the drama from your life to shift to empowerment
Handle and overcome dysfunctional habits of thinking and interacting
Build healthy relationships and strengthen productive team dynamics
“The moment you take responsibility for everything in your life, is the moment you can change anything in your life.”
Hal Elrod
“You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.”
Jim Rohn
Drama Triangle Workbook: Break Free from the Drama, Take Responsibility and Build Meaningful Relationships
Drama triangle is a powerful framework to understand the dysfunctional roles we adopt to deal with the conflict. Each role—victim, persecutor, rescuer—represents a common and ineffective response to conflict. Latching onto one of these roles in the drama triangle is the root cause of most unhealthy interactions. This workbook will enable you to recognize and eliminate the drama from your life and shift to empowerment.
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How This Workbook Will Help You
Learn how to…
Recognize and eliminate the drama from your life to shift to empowerment
Get direction and insight into what triggers harmful emotional reactions
Handle and overcome dysfunctional habits of thinking and interacting
Move towards constructive patterns of relating to your own emotions and those around you
Gain a stronger sense of trust in yourself and your judgment
Master new ways of taking action through positive mindset shift
Learn to communicate in a clear and effective manner
Discover your personal power to choose your response irrespective of the circumstances
Build healthy relationships and strengthen productive team dynamics
Live a better, happier life and help others do the same
and most importantly, put these ideas into practice in real life.
Break Free from Drama in 4 Steps
Step 1: Understand 3 Roles in Drama Triangle
Learn about the 3 dysfunctional roles you adopt to deal with the conflict.
Understand how a victim, persecutor and rescuer thinks, behaves and acts.
Identify the consequences of staying in these roles.
Step 2: Identify Your Prominent Role, Triggers and Patterns
Discover your default position on the drama triangle which you flip into under stress.
Identify triggers that make you regress into one of the roles in the drama triangle.
Determine patterns that make you repeat destructive behaviors and keeps you trapped.
Step 3: Shift from Drama to Empowerment
Get unstuck from drama by mastering new ways of thinking and acting through positive mindset shifts.
Learn to communicate in a clear and healthy pattern without engaging in harmful behaviors.
Exercise your power to choose your response in any given situation and feel in control of your outcomes.
Step 4: Track Your Progress to Repeat Positive Behaviors and Actions
Reflect on behaviors that are serving you well, new behaviors to be adopted and behaviors that must be stopped right away.
Track how often you fall for drama and your progress on the empowerment dynamic to adopt creator, challenger and coach roles more often.
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More About The Book…
How do you react to conflict? Do you turn into a victim, persecutor or a rescuer? Do you keep repeating the harmful behaviors that keeps you stuck and prevents you from moving forward or do you take measures to break unhealthy patterns of thinking and interacting?
Drama triangle provides an escape path to hide our underlying feelings and prevent us from addressing our real problems. It is a powerful framework to understand the dysfunctional roles we adopt to deal with the conflict. Each role—victim, persecutor, rescuer—represents a common and ineffective response to conflict. Latching onto one of these roles in the drama triangle is the root cause of most unhealthy interactions. Being caught up inside it can be damaging to your physical and mental health and can also ruin your relationships at work and in life. Everyone has a default position on the drama triangle which they flip into under stress. These roles are often played out between parents and children, partners, friends, and coworkers.
Conflict is inevitable, but you don’t have to be stuck in the drama triangle forever. To have meaningful relationships, you need to learn to communicate in a clear and healthy pattern without engaging in harmful behaviors. Drama Triangle Workbook will help you opt out of drama and embrace the empowerment dynamic which will free you from the three toxic roles of the drama triangle—victim, persecutor and rescuer—and enable you to adopt more resourceful roles of creator, challenger and coach. They are powerful roles to escape the drama triangle by giving you the power to choose your response in any given situation and feel in control of your outcomes.
In Drama Triangle Workbook, you’ll learn to:
- Recognize and eliminate the drama from your life to shift to empowerment.
- Get direction and insight into what triggers harmful emotional reactions.
- Handle and overcome dysfunctional habits of thinking and interacting.
- Move towards constructive patterns of relating to your own emotions and those around you.
- Gain a stronger sense of trust in yourself and your judgment.
- Master new ways of taking action through positive mindset shift.
- Learn to communicate in a clear and effective manner.
- Discover your personal power to choose your response irrespective of the circumstances.
- Build healthy relationships and strengthen productive team dynamics.
- Live a better, happier life and help others do the same.
Most importantly, the workbook will help you identify when you (or others around you) regress into one of the roles in the drama triangle and enable you to adopt new ways of thinking to communicate effectively and build better relationships at work and in life.
Whether you are hoping to break free of the drama triangle for yourself, or you are a manager, coach, trainer or a therapist wanting to inspire change in others, Drama Triangle Workbook offers a step-by-step approach to spot patterns of destructive behaviors and do something positive about it.
When drama shows up inside your head, know that the role isn’t real. It’s a choice. Exit drama now and take charge of your life.
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